The only trouble with the "all in head" stuff is that it brings back NCT child birth training to me! LOL Sometimes the problem isn't in the head, it's somewhere else entirely
Clickers feel a bit weird at first! They just do! I expect they feel less weird the more you use them, and so that's what I'm going to do. But at the moment I am still thinking about and listening for the click too much.. at the hesitant stage I guess. But working on it!