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| Opps I think this thread has gone from 'do other people take their younger children with them, and how do they stop them getting bored' to 'why some clubs dont let younger children shoot'. Just to clarify a couple of things: I can totally understand why a club wouldnt let a child under the age of 10 shoot. I work in a school and some under 10's I wouldnt let near a sharp pencil, let alone a bow and arrow. There were some youngesters older than 10 on my beginners course and they took up a lot of time and attention due to them mucking around and being generally unsafe. It didnt matter how many times they were told, they had the attention span of gnats. If I got hurt by someone else mucking about, it would be devastating to my little family, so I wouldnt want to compromise someone elses safety by my son shooting, when he is so young and therefore can still be silly sometimes. I am only a few weeks past my beginners course, and if my youngest son was shooting, then he would need 100% of my attention for him to shoot, therefore I wouldnt be able to continue with my archery. When he is older and can be coached independently then thats a different matter. This is the only time that I get to do anything I want to, and Im not sure I want to give that up. I dont feel that he would be mature enough to judge certain situations yet, for example if 'FAST' was shouted, then his automatic response would probably be something other than stop what you are doing - after all what does fast actually mean. His reactions to things would be slower, and its also things like loading the bow and turning round with it. Archery isnt easy, and when you are 8, finding something really hard can sometimes be so frustrating you get fed up easily and lose concentration. Also coaching under '8's' is a whole different ball game with child protection legislation, CRB certificates and teaching ratios. Oh well it looks like its back to the books and DS then, then when he is big enough he can decide for himself. Either that or get him a bow with arrows with suckers on and a cardboard target. Thankyou for all your help, some of you experienced archers have very lucky children.
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| Well, I'm complete newb at the archery thing, I am 4 weeks into a beginners course, my daughter aged 8 started at the same time, and appears to be doing quite well at concentrating on shooting and being quiet / maintaining etiquette on the line. She's been shooting a 14lb bow at a ten yard target and we've been discussing upping the bow to 16lb and her shooting at the 20 yard mark (maybe 20 metres to a metric face in stead). I would go so far as to say that it's actually helping her in other things as she can be a chatterbox. The coaches at the club (Bristol Bowmen) have been excellent in looking after her (and me ). |
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the reason for upping the poundage is that she has quite a short draw so isn't pulling the full draw weight - sorry should have been a bit clearer. As mentioned, I trust the club coaches - it was with them I was having the discussion with ![]() |
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| i had a thought about the original question while i was trying to placate some screaming babies. unless he is much more patient than i was at his age i dont think you can avoid him getting bored. a good selection of games might help. my mum used to take us to her cleaning round when we were about his age and made the boredom a bit more bearable by giving us a few inscentives to behave, eg going through the splash on the way home or letting us choose what to have for tea (for her to cook not mcd's or the like). hope you come up with some ideas...ill quiz my mum for a few more!
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| Can kids stay focused at an early age? For myself, all the twists in this thread have been answered this Sunday. My Daughter, as I said before has been shooting properly since she was 9. Can she learn that young? Is she safe that young? Can she concentrate that young ? ABSOLUTELY YES. And what the heck, others have started threads about their kids winning a medal. My daughters made me dead proud, so I thought the world should know anyway! She is pictured at an inter county shoot, with her county team badge, at 10 years old, before some clubs would let her shoot. Friskney however positively encourage young archers. I've copied part of my blog below, as not many venture into blogland. I've put a few pics on here, but have chopped the other kids out, as I'm not sure how posting pictures of other peoples kids goes? ![]() ![]() ![]() So there we are,
Must admit, unless you experience it, you will never know what it feels like to watch your kid walk out to the line with a county squad when the judges blow the whistle. And it cannot be explained in words. The full story is in the blogs.
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| Phil R 58, your daughters huge great grin says it all ready she sounds one very fortunate child to have all those opportunities and shes doing brilliantly. If she can do all that when shes 10.....![]() Thing is my son is still at the stage where he doesnt want to concentrate on any one thing at the moment, he did football for 18 months, now hes joined the school choir (bit of a difference), and he is starting Cubs in September. Ill just have to wait until he wants to shoot instead of sit and watch/play his DS. ![]() Im also hoping that by the time we go indoors, his big brother may be old enough to look after him at home for a couple of hours (He will be 15 by then.) It seems there are lots of children shooting, which is good as after all they are the adult archers of the future.
__________________ Dear Father Xmas, been a good girl this year thankyou for my early present - my bow.
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| Absolutely right Janice, the kids are the archers of the future. Yes they need a bit of patience, a lot of supervision, but the rewards are great. For them, the parents and the club. And of course, in cases like Sarah, the county reaps a reward from the clubs efforts with her, and who knows what beyond? Sarah has done football, choir, recorder and violin lessons, all have fallen by the wayside. Only archery has stuck. It's just finding what their passion is.
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