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It's not too difficult to do either - I've always been trained at work that to give feedback to someone you should praise what they are doing well at the same time, so you're not just focussing on faults. That way it comes across as encouraging rather than rude in any way. And lastly, as a beginner it's just nice to be noticed sometimes, and to know that there are other archers who have a genuine interest in helping you to progress. ![]() |
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| As the top female compounder in the club it is in my interest to encourage other female compounders. I teamed up with a girl that I coached and with Madelaine Ferris (most legendary female compounder in Aus) and we won the teams event at the Nationals. We could have filled the team with another member from our club (but she did not attend) and I think we still would have done well. Bringing other archers up to your level gives you more competition. You can drive each other and encourage each other. And it gives you someone to talk to on the way to and from collecting arrows (or maybe that's just us )With respect to manners, I only offer my advice once. If it is ignored or taken with ill grace I don't bother again. I have watched beginners take advice from an older man who was also a beginner and then reject advice from the girl who was coaching the beginners that day. I have also been accused of ignoring a beginner and not helping him at all. The beginner in question ignored every piece of advice I had to offer because he knew better. Funny how the person he finally decided to accept advice from was a man twice my age and with 1/10 the experience. If you are being ignored by the top archers, perhaps your manners need work. |
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I don't think it's fair to sit back if you have the ablity to help, but I don't agree with charging round the shooting like with the "yew dont want to doo it loik thaat!" attitude either ![]() |
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| I think one of the main reasons begginers dont stay is because of the archery "CLICK" mentality. I've seen it in every club i've been to. For Example in our club, the upper click who are all compounders will spend 10 minutes with an inexperienced compounder if he has a problem. But he'll spend all night with a fellow compounder ( in the click ) to help him get his new bow sorted. Newbies and inexperienced pick up on this and get very dis-heartened and end up leaving. Know what the click say " must not of liked archery" B/S. A minority (i hope) of club archers dont seem to like beginners in "THEIR" club because it means it might disturb "THEIR" nights shooting, and personaly i'd rather have 5 beginners that are prepared to learn and get stuck in, than 1 experienced compounder who is more interested in getting his rounds in. Beginners need to be coaxed, talked to, attention given to them, praised, helped, advised, because we as experienced archers are their source of information and help. Beginners dont leave, we let them go. If a club doesnt know why its beginners dont stay, heres an idea - ASK THEM!!!!!!!! Come on ladies and gentlemen beginners dont leave |
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But then again, he was not an elitist, You don't have to be elitist to be World champ. All this was of course discussed over several pints of real ale.
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